I ask all my friends if loving so much will be a sin, a mistake, or something to be ashamed of. a friend replied, ''yeah, we all want to be loved but if the shower of emotions doesn't come from the right person, we neglect it. take it for granted. i'd rather be as dry as the sahara than get stormed by love from the wrong person."

i want to talk to my friend after i received the message. i know i am argumentative but after i read it, i know that there is something that i want to explain. love is something that we just feel, it is so magnetic that it will just keep us coming back to the person that made us feel that. that is the way i see it, probably that is the way i love. people will say that once you love, leave something for yourself, but can someone introduce me to a person who love and still leave something for himself? i know that we are in control of our mind, our heart, and our actions but sometimes, love will just start doing things that we are not aware of. it will be automatic. digital. something we cant control.

i know we have our own idea of what will be our ideal partner. but what if that ideal partner does not exist? what if you will just meet someone that is the exact opposite of that ideal partner that you dream of? and you love that person, will you hinder yourself from loving so much?

i know. everyone is thinking that loving someone so much is a sin, a mistake, something that we must be ashame of. but what if you love someone, can you stop yourself from loving that person so much? i believe that it will never be a sin, because love encompasses everything. it is something so beautiful that it can't be wasted, it has no regrets, no hard feelings. its just pure love. and whether you will love someone so much, it will be your responsibility, it is your decision, your sole choice, and no one can question that, because if something bad happens, it will be nice that you will be the one who will personally learn how to be responsible with your decisions and you will feel good, y? because you learn to love.